Anger · with Spike

When your child hits or bites

Someone grabs the shovel, and your child’s hand flies — smack. Now there’s wailing, and every parent on the bench is looking at you.

Spike explores anger through a race that isn’t fair.

Spike the crab standing tall and smiling
Race day at Ember Sands! Spike polishes his shell till it shines. He wants a fair race more than anything. “Ready, set…”
Spike frowning, with two puffs of steam above his eyes
“…swim!” But somebody zoomed off early. “NOT FAIR!” Spike’s cheeks get hot. Steam puffs from his head. His eyes squint. His whole body is angry.

What Spike does next is in his free mini-story.

Hitting and biting peak around ages 2–3 and usually decline as children learn other ways.

If you’re worried about the hitting or biting, talk to your pediatrician.

Why we skip pillow-punching →

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This page is general information for parents, not medical or psychological advice. You know your child; when in doubt, your pediatrician is the right first call.

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